The wait is not wasted


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Waiting can be hard.

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The real kind of waiting.

The kind that feels like nothing is moving.

The kind where you have prayed the same prayer so many times you can barely say it with fresh faith anymore.

The kind where you look at your life and genuinely cannot tell if God is working or if you have somehow been overlooked.

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That kind of waiting.

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If you are in that season right now — I want to say something to you:

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The wait is not wasted.

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Every single day you are in a holding pattern that feels purposeless — God is doing something in you that cannot be done any other way.

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Think about bread.

Real bread — the kind that rises into something beautiful — requires something called proofing.

It is the season where the dough sits, seemingly doing nothing.

You cannot rush it.

You cannot skip it.

And from the outside, nothing appears to be happening at all.

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But inside? Everything is happening.

The yeast is working.

The structure is forming.

The foundation that will hold the bread together when it finally goes into the fire is being built in the quiet.

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Your waiting season is your proofing season.

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Romans 5:3-4 says:
“We also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope.”

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The waiting is not the interruption of the process. The waiting IS the process.

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Joseph waited 13 years from the dream to the palace.

David was anointed king and then went back to tending sheep.

Abraham waited 25 years for the promise of Isaac.

None of them were forgotten. All of them were being formed.

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Here is the question that changed my perspective on waiting seasons:

What is God trying to build in me that can only be built here?

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Not what is He doing FOR me. What is He doing IN me?

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That question shifts everything.

Because suddenly the waiting is not a delay.

It is a classroom.

And God is not an absent professor — He is present, intentional, and deeply invested in what you are becoming.

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You are not stuck. You are being prepared.

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And what God is preparing you for requires the person you are becoming in the wait — not the person you were before it.

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Hold on. The wait is not wasted.

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Not one single day of it.

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With love and full confidence in what God is building in you,
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Dr. Jevonnah “Lady J” Ellison​
Thrive in Life and Business while Keeping God 1st

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P.S. — What are you currently waiting on? Reply and tell me. I want to pray specifically for you by name.

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